Gracious: (Adjective) Courteous, kind, and pleasant.

Fergie's wedding sounds like it was a real treat for her guests. For one thing, as her mother Terri told Seacrest yesterday, if you had been invited, don't even think about bringing a date with you.

There were "350, 375 people were there," Terri said, "and that was keeping it way down! So many people couldn't bring a date unless they paid me money or something! It had to be someone you're actually engaged to or something like that." (Source)

Additionally, in order to attend the prestigious wedding of Fergalicious; I hope you don't mind being treated like cattle or having your personal belongings rifled through and confiscated:

A source tells the New York Daily News, "We couldn't bring anything with us. No cell phones, no cameras, nothing. We all met in a parking lot, where we were searched and went through metal detectors. Then we boarded buses and were taken to a private ranch-style estate in Malibu." (Source)

Yeah, because what kind of jerk would actually bring a camera to a wedding? The nerve of some people. But to be fair, this wasn't just any wedding, but the wedding of Fergie. So the flash photography rules apply, just like when you go to the zoo.

More of Fergie and Groom of Fergie leaving for their honeymoon: